They’ve called me—half in jest—the “glam girl of the holistic world,” and I’m all in. Why? Because I refuse to swap my heels for “sensible shoes” or let anyone think holistic living equals looking frumpy. Looking your best isn’t about fitting some cookie-cutter mold, size, or chasing fads—it’s about owning what makes you feel fierce. Glam girls of every shape and size, this is your moment. Here are 11 expert tips to let your wardrobe weave its magic, with the ultimate trick to owning any room: unshakable confidence.

Wrap It Up with a Wrap Dress

A wrap dress is your wardrobe’s MVP—universally flattering and a genius at sculpting your shape. Designer Diane von Furstenberg, who made it iconic, says it best: “A wrap dress wraps you. Made of jersey fabric, it molds to your body, helping to sculpt it.” Its asymmetrical cut cinches your waist and skims over trouble spots, making you look polished for any occasion.

Rock a V-Neck Top

V-necks are like optical illusions for your frame. The plunging neckline—go as low as you dare—draws the eye down, lengthening your neck and torso for a leaner look. Pair it with your favorite jeans or a sleek skirt, and you’re golden.

Skip the Pleats

Pleats, ruffles, or gathers? They’re fabric traps that can add bulk where you don’t want it. Whether on your waist, hips, or neckline, these fussy details scream “extra.” Stick to clean, simple shapes that let your natural silhouette shine.

Go Monochrome for the Win

You’ve heard black is slimming, but here’s a twist: any dark hue—navy, chocolate, charcoal—works the same magic when worn head-to-toe. Monochrome outfits create a seamless, streamlined vibe that makes you look taller and leaner. Mix textures to keep it fresh.

Let Your Pant Hems Flow (But not too much)

Tailor your trousers to graze no more than half an inch from the floor. A straight-leg cut stretches your legs into forever territory, giving you that endless, leggy look. Bonus: it’s chic and timeless.

Pair Pants with Heels

Heels aren’t just for strutting—they lift your posture, perk up your backside, and make your legs look miles long. Match your shoe color to your pants for a smooth, unbroken line that screams elegance. Even a low heel can work wonders.

Embrace Vertical Lines

Vertical stripes or patterns are your secret weapon. They pull the eye up and down, making you appear taller and slimmer. Keep it subtle—think pinstriped pants with a solid blouse or a striped dress with a turtleneck. Too many colors or wide stripes can distract from the effect.

Layer on Long Necklaces

Bold, layered necklaces that dangle from mid-chest to waist are like arrows pointing downward, tricking the eye into seeing a trimmer you. Whether chunky chains or delicate strands, they add flair without adding bulk.

Hem Skirts to Flatter

Your skirt’s hemline is make-or-break. Aim for just above or below the knee to highlight the slimmest part of your leg—between thigh and calf. Mid-thigh skirts spotlight thicker areas, and super-long ones can feel frumpy. Find your sweet spot.

Choose the Perfect Fit

It’s tempting to hide in baggy clothes or squeeze into too-tight outfits, but both are confidence killers. Clothes that fit just right—not too loose, not too snug—hug your curves in all the right places, boosting your swagger instantly.

Screw It All: Confidence Is Your Best Look

These tips? They’re gold, but they’re just suggestions. The real magic happens when you wear what makes you feel like a million bucks. Forget the “experts” if their rules don’t spark joy. A glam girl who struts with confidence—no matter her size—is impossible to ignore. So pick the colors, styles, and pieces that light you up. Be the expert on you.

Shine Like the Star You Are

This “glam girl of the holistic world” is here to help you glow from the inside out. A killer wardrobe is fabulous, but the real sparkle? That comes from good health and an unstoppable purpose. That’s what makes you stand out and inspires others to ignite their own inner glow. Want to shine brighter than ever? Sign up for my newsletter and tune in to my podcast, Sharise Uncut, for real talk about health, life, and everything in between.

To your style—and the glam girl you already are!